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Love Is…

17 Jun

…something that needs to be cultivated, just like a field of crops or flowers you plant in your yard. If you don’t pursue the weeds and remove them, they will overtake your lovely flower bed. The same goes for helping love have a place to bloom inside of us. When we have unloving thoughts towards others, those are the weeds. Those thoughts won’t just leave by themselves. You have to pull them out and say “No!” to them and replace them with a loving thought towards the one the weed was growing against. Sometimes these word weeds are growing against our family or friends, sometimes they are growing against ourselves. Either way, you have to do something to make those weeds stop growing, just like you have to physically pull weeds out of that flowerbed. I want to encourage you to make a conscious effort to weed your heart and mind and replace all that with loving thoughts and actions. You’ll see a much more beautiful harvest of flowers in your life if you will.

Love is patient.  

Love is kind.

Love does not envy.

Love does not boast.

Love is not proud.

Love does not dishonor others.

Love is not self-seeking.

Love is not easily angered.

Love keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in the pain of others but rejoices with the truth.

Love always protects.

Love always trusts.

Love always hopes.

Love always perseveres.

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

Hope you have a love filled day!  Angela

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Wonderful Monday….

06 Jun

Well, I may be a little facetious in my title, but this is the day I want to share those things I have been grateful for. It’s been a busy life lately, so I will pick up on my gratitude list where I left off a few weeks ago. Alrighty then, let’s get started!

1. I am grateful for movies. :) I love going to the movies, buying popcorn and a drink and sitting back and enjoying the big show in front of me. I have updated my Movie page so pop over and have a peek at what I’ve found entertaining lately.

2. Greek Festival in Greenville. We went on Saturday May 21 and had a wonderful lambburger, some fantastic lemonade and wonderful fried cheese and calamari. The booths of stuff were fun to check out too. So I’m grateful for fun things to do in the area I live in.

3. Ikea! I am really grateful for a store that I enjoy shopping in. From the size of the haul it looks like we liked it a little too much :) .

Mostly the boxes are the shelves Boyfriend and I will have for storage. The backseat is full of organizing stuff for the shelves and a few goodies we found for fun. I do not normally like to shop at all….I know…I’ve said this many times in this blog. :) But I did enjoy Ikea. If you have one in your area you need to just drop in and check it out. The one in Charlotte we go to is ginormous! There is also a lovely dining area on the top floor and the food is reasonable and tastes great! If you like to shop, you may never leave….

An Ikea truckload!

4. I am grateful we got to go on vacation, and I will share a post or two on that soon. We went again to Folly Beach, SC and the Charleston area. Something about being at the ocean helps me feel even more connected to God. I love going, period. I am thankful for the chance to go there.

5. I am grateful for three thing in this example: creativity, recycling and upcycling. We met some very creative people at Artisphere, here is another picture of some of the fun things we saw:

Fobots by Amy Flynn

I love anything to do with recycling or upcycling. Amy Flynn does both with her creations. Visit her website for more information.

6. I am grateful for little 2 year old girls pretending to read to me and putting everyone in the family in her story. Precious to listen to. Just precious. :)

7. I’m grateful for all the new friends I am making through this blog. I love our comments and shared visits. I really look forward to seeing which of you has dropped by each day. And I am loving all the creative things so many of you do and share. I should move this to my Number one spot :) .

8. I am grateful for the many friends I have on Facebook now as well. I haven’t been able to meet many of them in person yet, but some plans have already been made for the next time they or I are in the same area. Fun stuff to look forward to!

9. For good yard sale finds! We were able to replace my small cooler and a roasting pan for $5! Love me some yardsales!

10. Lastly today I am grateful for weekends. I’m usually sorry to see them go, but I will try to remember what Dr. Seuss said: “Don’t be sad it’s over, just be glad it happened!” I’m very glad my weekends happen. :)

Would love to hear what you are grateful for. There is a pretty mixed bag of stuff here, but as I read over it I know something about it now that I didn’t know at the beginning. As I said in my opening you could take my “Wonderful Monday” a little facetiously, but after writing this all out it has become very true. Have a wonderful Monday and a lovely week everyone! Angela

 

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Absent Again :)

31 May

Well, I didn’t mean to be away for quite so long. Hope all is well with you and yours. We had a nice vacation at Folly Beach, so yes, dreams do come true. :) We also had several things we needed to get done, Boyfriend and I. We did accomplish part of our list. Why is it we always have more on those lists than we can get done it seems? Oh well. We will keep working on it.

I will have a nice new sewing area to share with you sometime over the next few weeks. One of the things on the list was a trip to Ikea to purchase shelves for Boyfriend’s home. He has been pondering them for 9 months or so. . . yes, I am dating a procrastinator. :) Because I despise to shop he paid a shopping tax for me joining him on the trip. The tax was some shelving for my sewing area. I got a great bargain out of the whole thing because as it turned out shopping at Ikea was fun to me. 8) Go figure. Either way we will both have some wonderful and handy new shelves to use soon. Yay!

I also have several other things I have not posted on, Artisphere being one of those things. I have so many cool things to share about it with you. I will definitely try to get that post finished. I will also be sharing some of the cute pics from our vacation as soon as I get those downloaded to my computer too. Hopefully this weekend.

In the meantime, I have been working on a list of 60 questions to submit to a business coach I have just started working with. Going through some of the questions has caused me to pull out some old favorites of encouragement and inspiration. I wanted to share some wonderful quotes I am using from Og Mandino. Hope you find some nugget to enjoy as well! See you in June! Angela

Always render more and better service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be.

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence.

Do not listen to those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious.

I am here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand. Henceforth will I apply ALL my efforts to become the highest mountain of all and I will strain my potential until it cries for mercy.

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.

Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread: remade all the time, made new.

Never again clutter your days or nights with so many menial and unimportant things that you have no time to accept a real challenge when it comes along. This applies to play as well as work. A day merely survived is no cause for celebration. You are not here to fritter away your precious hours when you have the ability to accomplish so much by making a slight change in your routine. No more busy work. No more hiding from success. Leave time, leave space, to grow. Now. Now! Not tomorrow!

Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.

Sound character provides the power with which a person may ride the emergencies of life instead of being overwhelmed by them. Failure is… the highway to success.

The victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of setting goals and achieving them. Even the most tedious chore will become endurable as you parade through each day convinced that every task, no matter how menial or boring, brings you closer to fulfilling your dreams.

To be always intending to make a new and better life but never to find time to set about it is as to put off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to the next until you’re dead.

To do anything truly worth doing, I must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in with gusto and scramble through as well as I can.

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.

Og Mandino, author of  The Greatest Miracle in the World and The Greatest Salesman In The World

Always render more and better service than is expected of you, no matter what your task may be.
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Always seek out the seed of triumph in every adversity.
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Cherish each hour of this day for it can never return.
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Og Mandino

Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence.
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Og Mandino

Do not listen to those who weep and complain, for their disease is contagious.
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Og Mandino

Each failure to sell will increase your chances for success at your next attempt.
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Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.
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I am here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand. Henceforth will I apply ALL my efforts to become the highest mountain of all and I will strain my potential until it cries for mercy.
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Og Mandino

I seek constantly to improve my manners and graces, for they are the sugar to which all are attracted.
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I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.
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I will not allow yesterday’s success to lull me into today’s complacency, for this is the great foundation of failure.
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It is those who concentrate on but one thing at a time who advance in this world. The great man or woman is the one who never steps outside his or her specialty or foolishly dissipates his or her individuality.
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Og Mandino

Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread: remade all the time, made new.
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Og Mandino

Never again clutter your days or nights with so many menial and unimportant things that you have no time to accept a real challenge when it comes along. This applies to play as well as work. A day merely survived is no cause for celebration. You are not here to fritter away your precious hours when you have the ability to accomplish so much by making a slight change in your routine. No more busy work. No more hiding from success. Leave time, leave space, to grow. Now. Now! Not tomorrow!
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Og Mandino

Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.
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Og Mandino

Sound character provides the power with which a person may ride the emergencies of life instead of being overwhelmed by them. Failure is… the highway to success.
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Og Mandino

Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.
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The person who knows one thing and does it better than anyone else, even if it only be the art of raising lentils, receives the crown he merits. If he raises all his energy to that end, he is a benefactor of mankind and its rewarded as such.
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Og Mandino

The victory of success is half won when one gains the habit of setting goals and achieving them. Even the most tedious chore will become endurable as you parade through each day convinced that every task, no matter how menial or boring, brings you closer to fulfilling your dreams.
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Og Mandino

To be always intending to make a new and better life but never to find time to set about it is as to put off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to the next until you’re dead.
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Og Mandino

To do anything truly worth doing, I must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in with gusto and scramble through as well as I can.
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Og Mandino

Treasure the love you have received above all. It will survive long after your gold and good health have vanished.
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Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your good health has vanished.
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Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.
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Og Mandino, The Greatest Miracle in the World

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What Have I Been Up Too Lately?

19 May

Funny how I want to write, but don’t seem to have enough juice to do it. So, I have been reading other people’s blogs, people like Helen Clyde. This is a very interesting lady who I luckily tripped on to one day a couple of weeks ago. She is very creative, I have been enjoying reading about her multiple craft ideas and checking out things she has made. She adds a music video she likes to her blogs each day too, and that has been a lot of fun for me to listen to new music and see some familiar names too. I really like her blog. It is very encouraging to me to read whatever she shares. You need to check her out too.

Another blog I like to visit is Blogging About AF life. I believe I found this one through The BlogFrog, but I’m not 100% sure. This is a blog about real life, and she is also a crafty kind as well. I feel like I know her when I read what she shares, and again I just really like her blog and her posts. A very interesting lady. :)

I am also reading Princess Warrior Lessons. She battles a disease that causes her great fatigue. I don’t have any known cause for this myself, but I do have problems with my energy a lot, and understand fatigue more than I want to. She is a busy mom, wife and woman and her struggles sometimes run similar to mine for different reasons. I really got a lot out of her recent post named ‘Unplug.’ I have been wondering if Facebook and some other things are eating too much of my time. She is looking at similar issues and has decided to unplug from it for the month of May. It is an intriguing thought to me. I am pondering something similar myself.

As I was reading Princess Warrior, I found a link to The Gypsy Mama and found an older post of hers that really spoke to me, For The Sundays When You Wonder If You Matter At All. I use to really enjoy going to church and being part of a community there. But the last few years have not been geared that way. At times I really do miss it too, but when I do go it just doesn’t seem to be right. My belief system is similar to a lot of churches in some ways, and very different in others. This post gave me a different perspective about going to church. I really love to have people come to things I am involved in, to participate, to be involved or just to be there to support me. This post made me realize that sometimes Jesus just gets happy because I came to be with Him in His Father’s house. It’s nice to feel wanted. I am wanted by Him because He loves me. The post talks about Jesus celebrating our being there with Him.  We can get a lot of ‘go to church’ because you’re suppose to, or because you should. But obligation is not getting me there anymore at all. But hanging out with Jesus like this post talks about, yeah. I would really love that. For me it was a very touching post. Thank you Gypsy Mama.

I guess I’ve needed to soak up some of these things. I am drawn to real life blogs right now, people sharing their lives and their hearts and the honesty of that is very appealing to me. There are other blogs I visit and follow, but these are the ones speaking the loudest to me. We all have extremely busy lives now, and that’s not always a good thing. I want to remember to enjoy my life, to embrace the wonderful moments and savor them to help give me strength to get through the harder times. We have both good and hard in our lives. I don’t want the hard to drown out the good for me. And I’m willing to do something to keep that from happening, even if it is only finding blogs that encourage me to keep on keeping on. :) Hope you are finding the best way to do that for yourself too. Let me know how you are. Hopefully over the weekend I can share about the fun we had at Artisphere last week. Have a great Friday! Angela

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Help Save Charles Manly

23 Apr

Help Save Charles Manly -  per a blog post from a new friend, Rebecca Dunning. Click on her name to go directly to her blog post of this as well. This young man and his family need our help! Charles Manly, 14, has been diagnosed with RAD – Reactive Attachment Disorder and severe Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD.) Per his mother: He struggles more than any 14 year old boy should ever have to struggle. He is lost and alone. He is unable to obtain friends and continually sabotages any relationships he enters. Charles lives in a constant state of fear which causes him to be very reactive and destructive to those around him. After countless nights in prayer, God has opened a door to offer help and healing through a ministry that speaks life and love into struggling teenagers. It is Shepard’s Hill Farm/Academy. Charles became accepted into their 12 month therapeutic discipleship program. The family is very thankful that this door has opened. The program uses horses and Christ’s love to help the attendees learn how to attach and care for others.

Please repost this, blog it and share it on your social networking sites. Thanks so much, Rebecca

Dear Friends: I (Rebecca) am writing this unapologetically desperate (yet full of hope) for one of my best friends here in Colorado, Jen Manly. Her son, Charles is circling the drain emotionally and physically and in need of some serious divine intervention.

Reader’s Digest: Due to the safety of her other children, she and her husband are being required to remove him from their home to get help after they have exhausted ALL of their options and finances in every area to bring him rescue. After nothing short of a miracle Charles has been accepted to a Christian long term home called The Good Shepherd, that uses proven Jesus orientated therapy and bonding with horses to bring healing. Due to it having Christ involved they get no state funding and the cost is $55,000, with $11,000 of that needed up front to get him in.

Jen and her husband are cashing in their 401k, selling furniture (that they use) etc. to save their son and it still just scratches the surface.

I have been captured by the fact that Jesus went “all in” for me. Not only saved my soul, but brought me into relationship with him when ALL was against me. I am unashamedly asking for everyone I know to consider doing the same. I am crying out to the Father for full restoration!
Thanks,
Rebecca

PLEASE HELP:

1) PRAY!
2) Give: The website is: www.gofundme.com/charlesmanly.
3) For those in Colorado Springs. We are holding a garage sale April 22 and 23 (Fri and Sat) from 7am-2pm at 8933 Bellcove Circle, CS, CO 80920. Please donate items or come on by to shop.

I know this is a very different blog post for me, but I felt led to share so hopefully more of us would be able to help this family.My heart really goes out to them. I met Rebecca through The Blog Frog social network we are both a part of.  Thank you for reading and considering this. Any size donation would be a help, even $10. Thanks again, and I hope your weekend is wonderful and that your Easter is special too. Thanks! Angela

 

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Soul Changes, part 2

21 Apr

A Transformed Creature

My last few posts have been more on the light and fun side. Today is a more serious topic. In an earlier post, Don’t Let it Change You in Your Soul, I wrote about feeling broken, fragmented. Trying to hold myself together and helping myself heal and recover. To think on better things than the things that have hurt me. Think instead on these things: Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. (Philippians 4:8) I do try to do that. I succeed most of the time. I am also coming to an understanding and a realization about myself too. I think it’s a good thing.

The divorce and the ensuing life changes it forced on me broke me for a little while. I guess it took a while for me to figure it out too. I would not have admitted this a couple of years ago, but for some reason now I know that it’s ok to do it. I am human, just like you….and whether you realize it or not that means we are fragile. We are breakable. We are fallible, and don’t want to admit it. In the earlier post I spoke of having a hard time recovering from some things. Part of it being hard I think was my inability to recognize that something in me had broken and my personality, or my soul, had changed from that break. I am recovering. And that is ok. One alternative would have been to go into a severe depression and be committed. Another alternative would have been to end my life. That is not an acceptable alternative. Both were things at different times during the early part of my separation and divorce that I thought about. I am grateful I never had to be committed. I am even more grateful I did not commit suicide. God sent people to me that helped me get through given moments that I could not get through myself, another thing I am grateful for.

Now I am recognizing I am different. I am changed. When I first noticed it I didn’t really feel like it was a good thing, hence some of the discussion I was having in the first post. I didn’t feel like the change was for the better. I apparently have a fear of change, so it has taken me a few weeks to realize the change isn’t bad. It’s just different. I am being more responsible with my own emotional care. I am different, but I like myself today. I am a kind person, I like to help others. I am not as naive as I used to be. I am also realizing I don’t always have to give all of me away to someone to help them. It isn’t necessary. I have always tended to be an all or nothing kinda girl. Now I am understanding that was not a very wise way for me to handle myself emotionally…. and I see that I can still help others without doing damage to myself.

I think I feel like this is selfish on some plane, so that is one reason I feel so weird about it. I do have compulsion issues. I am not an alcoholic, but definitely have the personality traits for that kind of behavior. The compulsive side of helping would have me so throw myself into helping someone else that I would get lost, not be able to say no. Boundaries help in these areas a lot. So I have learned to say no. Again. I learned this lesson many years ago, but because of the changes I am discussing I have had to relearn an old lesson.

So, what’s new with you? Has life forced any changes on you that you would probably not have chosen yourself? I say in my facebook profile: “I’m glad to be where I am now. If I had been asked, I probably wouldn’t have chosen the paths that led me here, but now that I am arriving, I know there was value in traveling down each one.” This is a very true statement for me. Hope you are seeing the value in your own journey as well. Til we meet again :) , Angela

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Shirley, Goodness and Mercy…

14 Apr

April Fool’s weekend was a very busy and happy weekend. Sorry for the delay in sharing, but the headaches have made it hard for me to do much other than work. We started the weekend off on Friday, which was April 1, and one of my grandson’s 10th birthday. The party was great! We got him a really cute toy, basically a cardboard guitar called Paper Jamz. It was the hit of the party! The other 2 grandsons were wanting to play it bad, but the birthday boy wouldn’t lay it down. However he very generously shared his other presents with them, as long as they didn’t touch the guitar. :) It was an impulsive gift that paid off big dividends, let me tell you. He can really learn to play guitar with it if he wants to as well. It comes with instructions for that, as well as 2 or 3 demo songs he can strum along to. It also has a pretty decent volume button, so even though it was kinda loud I did get a couple of points with my son and daughter-in-law for NOT buying the amplifier to go with it. It was a very successful party as far as I could tell. We enjoyed it and so did the kids.

We got ready to go home around 9 or so, and I was gonna run to the bathroom before we left, but found it was occupied. Since the occupant was going to need it for a while, ;) , we gave everyone quick hugs and kisses and headed to the gas station for a quick potty break before our 35 minute trip home. We get there and dash in, thinking we will be on the road in just a minute. Then, I met Shirley. Or kinda, well maybe not met her but heard her. Well, wait. Let me explain…..

I met Shirley last night in the bathroom of the gas station. She was talking on her cell phone explaining to whomever was on the other end: she knew she was slightly lost. She had passed Spartanburg, she was maybe in Landrum (yes, she was. She was in a bathroom in Landrum). She kept talking about places in the area, but not really like she knew where they were, I could tell they were just names to her. She wasn’t admitting it, but she was really lost and pretty confused, but she was trying to not worry her friend on the other end of the phone.

I was drying my hands when she came out of her stall. She had the most beautiful white head of curls I have ever seen. Lots and lots of fluffy curls. She was probably around 65 to 70. I’m not sure, but I’m almost 50 and as beautiful as she was, she was a good bit older than me. I stopped her as she was leaving, and told her I wasn’t trying to pry but I couldn’t help overhearing her phone conversation. Was she lost? Could I help? I told her I grew up in the area and knew a good bit about it.

Shirley started telling me her story. She was traveling to Boiling Springs. She had missed her exit, and wasn’t sure where she was. She knew she was past Spartanburg, and she needed to be. But now she wasn’t sure where she was and she needed to get to Boiling Springs. I smiled, and patted her hand. I knew exactly where she was headed and what she had done wrong. I tried to tell her, but she needed me to write it down for her. We stepped out to the gas station, and I got a pen and some paper from the attendant, and started writing the simple directions out for her. She was so happy, she was patting my arm and smiling. When Boyfriend came out, I introduced them and kept writing and explaining directions to her.

I could tell she was coherent, but she must have been tired. She was getting the directions confused. I told her to turn right out of the parking lot and take an immediate right onto the interstate. She kept pointing left. I told her to go 10 miles and take the exit and turn left to go to Boiling Springs. She kept pointing right. I let her read the directions and she would say the right thing, but point the wrong way. I got worried. She wasn’t going to be able to correct this herself. I looked at Boyfriend, then I looked at her. Sweet but tired face. I couldn’t throw her out into the night and not know where she was! I tell her we will lead her to the exit ramp of the interstate, then I will be sure she has her bearings and she can go on from there. Is that alright with her?

Beautiful smile! Oh, she just can’t believe we would do that for her! She is so thankful she stopped to use the bathroom here. I guess it worked out well for us to have to stop too.  She and I exchanged phone numbers. She gets in her car, we get in ours and off we go down the interstate, with Shirley, goodness and mercy following close behind. :) I kept telling Boyfriend to not go too fast, she was having trouble keeping up, and when cars passed her she would swerve a little to the right. We didn’t lose her, and she stayed with us. It was a long 10 mile drive, but soon enough we got to the exit and at the top I got out to see if she was ok.

I told her this was where she would turn left and at the end of the road turn right and she would be in Boiling Springs. She pointed right again, and then I had her repeat it to me. She didn’t want us to go any further with her, she thought she could do it. I go over directions again, while a car passes by and she thanks me profusely and tells me she will call me if she gets confused again. We turn right to go the long way home, she turns left and heads toward Boiling Springs. Boyfriend and I talk about her all the way home. It takes us about 45 minutes to get there. I sit in the car looking at my phone. I haven’t heard form her. Is she ok? Should I call her? Will it confuse her, or cause her to miss a turn or something? I slowly put my phone away, thinking I will wait a while. Right as my phone touches the bottom of my purse, it rings! It’s Shirley! She is with her sister and they are so happy and thankful she ran into me. She calls me her guardian angel, and I tell her I am very glad she is safe with her sister and off the road for the night. She thanks me again for helping her, telling me she is thanking God for me. We say goodbye. I close my phone and we go into the house, happy and smiling at each other.

A psalm of David, number 23

1 The Lord is my shepherd. He gives me everything I need.  2 He lets me lie down in fields of green grass. He leads me beside quiet waters. 3 He gives me new strength. He guides me in the right paths for the honor of his name. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will not be afraid. You are with me. Your shepherd’s rod and staff comfort me. 5 You prepare a feast for me right in front of my enemies. You pour oil on my head. My cup runs over. 6 Surely (Shirley) goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life. And I will live in the house of the Lord forever…. my ‘translation’ of Shirley of course, but I think it fits very nicely with our adventure. :)

I had to go to the bathroom at the gas station. I am very glad indeed! I’m glad I was there to help. Hope you are having a wonderful day! Remembering this has brightened mine. Thanks for reading! Angela

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Migraines & Taxes

12 Apr

Started out stormy....

 

Migraines or taxes, which one do you think are worse? Neither one are fun to deal with, and I unfortunately have had to deal with both this last week.  I am behind on everything I planned to do by now. Oh well.

I had a bad experience with my taxes last year, and it has caused me to delay my completion of them this year. Mostly I spent this past weekend putting the rest of everything together, then onto a website to complete the forms. I was a tax preparer for a few years, then moved on to other occupations. :) So I feel a little rusty working on them. I am also partly self employed, so I have a decent chunk of income I have to show expenses against. I do have a good bit of expenses to use, it just takes time to add everything up and find the right hole to plug the number in. I had worked on my ‘stuff’ gathering and had most of it done, but it still took 4 hours to finish and add everything up, with Boyfriend helping too I might add. I have a very nice and very patient Boyfriend, in case I haven’t mentioned that lately. I was a grumpy gus working on everything. He let me grumble and gus and kept right on helping me. That was Saturday.

Sunday was spent finding the website and plugging in the numbers we found on Saturday. Another 4 hours later adding numbers and checking and rechecking entries and according to the website I finally had no mistakes and I am ready to file. By this time my head was beginning to seriously hurt. I told Boyfriend I would send them off the next day, and closed the books for the evening. I have had some headaches off and on since last Tuesday.

Monday came and headache was still there. It was a long day. I had a couple of elderly customers come in for me to explain their insurance to them. I usually really enjoy this part of my job. They were a very nice elderly couple, only problem is the husband has dementia. He knows he does, and he knows he will probably forget everything I have told him by the time they get back out to their car. His wife and I had already spoken and gone over everything before they came in, she just needed my help for him too. I took my time and spent close to 2 hours going over their questions, several times. :) I was pretty worn out by the time they thought they had everything they needed. By then my head was seriously aching. When I have to talk a lot it makes the headaches worse. Le sigh. It was going to be a long day.

...but nice results in the end.

I also had an interesting event I was going to that night. A friend of mine started selling a product that helps you lose a few inches off of your waist overnight. It’s kind of a natural detox, she went through the whole explanation and procedure with several of us that had gathered for her product test run. I really did loose 3 inches in the middle of my waist, and 1 1/2 inches each off of my lower and upper belly too. You can contact her through her new website, heckyeahitworks if you are curious. If the site isn’t completely working yet, try back in a few days. It was interesting to see the results. I will let you know how long they last for me.

Anyway, after the ‘wrap party,’ as it was called :) , my head was SCREAMING at me….even thought about going to the hospital on my way home. But when I got in I drank a protein shake and took a quick bath and went to bed. The headache finally disappeared somewhere between 10 PM and 12:30 AM when I had to get up to go to the bathroom. Today has been better, but I am very sore from the headache, and a little scattered, which is a normal response to the headaches for me. I went almost 2 years with no migraines, and I was thrilled with that. Unfortunately I am having them a lot the last few months. My stress management has not been working I guess. February/March I had a 3 week migraine, and headaches off and on for most of the last week ending with this doozy of one last night. I am looking forward to my vacation in May. I really think I need it.

Hope you are doing better than this. :) I am doing better now thankfully. I do have a wonderful story about a lady named Shirley and that birthday party we went that I will share with you soon. April Fool’s weekend was a great weekend! Will catch you up next time, talk to you then, Angela

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“Whether you think you can, or think you can’t, you’re right.” — Henry Ford

01 Apr

It’s strange somehow that reading something as simple as a quote from someone you admire or even someone totally new to you can inspire you to a better day. I hope you enjoy these few I am sharing, and they uplift you or at least entertain you. Some of these are recent quotes I am enjoying, others are old favorites. Enjoy!


Earth’s crammed with heaven, and every common bush afire with God, but only he who sees takes off his shoes; the rest sit round it and pluck blackberries. Elizabeth Barrett Browning

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. Helen Keller

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. – Marcel Proust

Once you pour the water out of the bucket it’s hard to get it back in.  Chinese proverb

Don’t be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin!
- Anonymous

The habit of being uniformly considerate toward others will bring increased happiness to you!
- Greenville Kleiser

When I give, I give myself
- Walt Whitman

The world is a book and those who do not travel read only a page
- St. Augustine

Nothing is really work unless you would rather be doing something else.
J.M. Barrie, Novelist

There are hundreds of languages in the world, but a smile speaks them all
- Anonymous

From:

Crimes and Misdemeanors
My husband and I fell in love at first sight… maybe I should have taken a second look.

Fried Green Tomatoes
A heart can be broken; but it keeps beating just the same.

Wizard of Oz
Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable…Tin Man

“Blue Bottle Club” (book)
Don’t give your future to your past…

Mark Twain:

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

We are all alike, on the inside.

To be good is noble, but to show others how to be good is nobler and no trouble.

The best way you can cheer yourself up is to cheer someone else up.

Now, you need to let me know which ones you liked, and what your favorite quotes are too. I would love to share some of them in a later post. As for this weekend, we have been promised sunshine again, and this little ducky will be glad for some dry weather. :) We have a very busy weekend planned: a birthday for an April Fool’s grandson, a shopping trip for new cloth (yay!), and a game night and get together with friends. Hope you have a wonderful weekend! Sounds like we will….. Angela

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Encouraging Words…

30 Mar

Love you!

You are wonderful!

You are so beautiful!

What a thoughtful thing to do….you didn’t have to.

You look great today!

You are so smart!

You’re my favorite!

You are very creative.

What a great idea!

It’s going to be alright, and I am right here with you through it all.

What are some of your favorite things to hear from others? What helps lift you up when you are down, brings a smile to your face and just makes your burden seem a little bit lighter?

For me, it has been all the wonderful comments I have received over the last few days concerning this blog. I enjoy writing, and I like to share things with others. I’m very happy to know that some of what I have to share makes you happy too.

Morris Island Lighthouse

What can you add to my little list of encouraging words? What could someone say that would make you smile and feel happy, content? What are the things you are grateful for? Everyday things and once in a while things? I would love to hear a few of your favorites too :) .

It’s been a long dreary rainy day here in SC. The temps are not as warm as last week, and I truly miss the warmth. It’s suppose to rain until Friday I think. So my hands and feet will be cold for a few more days, but my heart is warm and happy now thanks to all of youl. :) Hope you have a wonderful night full of pleasant dreams! Angela

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