Have you ever wondered why some people just seem blessed from birth, while others struggle to survive? I have as well, and during a recent meeting I picked up a few traits that successful people have in common from the discussion. The guest speaker had gathered her information from several different sources, and found most of these traits on everyone’s list. As you are reading, look for areas you are accomplished in as well as areas you could work on. I was surprised by a few of these as well, maybe you will be too.
1. Successful people are positive people.
2. They aren’t critical of others, don’t sit around pointing out how others have failed.
3. They don’t get a reputation for talking behind people’s backs. Now isn’t THAT refreshing!
4. They don’t complain. They are doers.
5. They smile a lot and build relationships, help others solve their problems.
6. Successful people aren’t finger-pointers. If there is a problem, they look for the solution instead of the blame. They don’t worry about who’s fault it was to begin with, instead they begin to work out the problem and give the responsible party the opportunity to see it isn’t as big a deal as it could be, and they will usually jump in and become part of the solution. Sometimes things just go wrong too, no one is to blame, many times though people can get so caught up in trying to blame someone they never get the problem solved.
7. Successful people are responsible people.
8. They are excited about opportunities. “You miss EVERY shot you don’t take.” Wayne Gretzky I may have missed a few, but I’m taking a new shot right now!
9. Successful people can apologize. They take responsibility for their mistakes and actually say, “I’m sorry, what can I do to fix the situation?”
10. They are slow to make decisions, but quick to tweak if a problem occurs.
11. Successful people believe in the power of networking and they do it regularly.
12. They are optimistic and persistent, can be very focused and not easily distracted. Look! There’s a squirrel!
13. They do less things, but they do them well.
14. Open minded, looking for new ideas while maintaining current responsibilities.
15. They embrace change. I really need to work on this one.
16. Successful people take advantage of advances in technology. I’m trying to figure Twitter out, really I am!
17. They forgive themselves for mistakes. That’s a trait we can all work on I’m sure.
18. They take their supplements. No really, they do. They look for ways to improve their performance, energy and attention span.
19. They learn to avoid energy drainers, whether it’s certain people, situations or activities. If it slows their enthusiasm down, they learn to delegate these things to others.
20. To be successful we need to learn to be kind to ourselves when we are falling behind. Kicking ourselves around because we didn’t do everything perfectly is counter productive to true accomplishment.
21. Successful people learn to listen to their own body. When it tells them they are tired, they schedule a break or make time to rest.
22. Successful people also honor their core values. Learn what these are for you and avoid situations that compromise those values.
23. Women don’t take up enough space. Successful women learn how to stand out in the crowd, being true to themselves and their beliefs. It’s not easy in today’s world of constant compromise, but work towards being the one that can enjoy leading, and do it well and with integrity. Men should do this as well, but there are many more successful men in this world to date than successful women. We can do it! Stay true to yourself!
24. Following that point, women talk differently than men and use different body language as well when communicating. Aggressive personalities may see the common head nod a woman gives in communication as acquiescence, when we just think that we are agreeing with a point. Women, if you are in the business world, hold yourself tall and strong, believe in yourself and find others that believe in you as well, to help encourage you to continue standing tall and strong even on the bad days.
25. Successful people don’t fidget. They are confident, and walk with that air. They don’t act superior, just confident. There is a difference.
So, which of these traits do you see in yourself, and which would you like to grow in? I’ve mentioned a couple I need to work on as we went along with the list, please share your challenges with me in the comments. I would love to hear from you! Now get out there and have a successful week! Thanks, Angela
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